Myths and legends

How do you know if a stone is not right for you?

Mineral lovers may have many questions about whether they should trust natural stones? We will answer the most popular ones.


People are like stones – true beauty is not external, but internal. We are accustomed to consider the beauty of a stone to be what we see with our naked eyes. But it’s not that simple. Sometimes beauty is hidden in such small details that not everyone understands. Natural stones are impressive precisely as works of nature, where she leaves her autograph. Every crack, inclusion, pattern are those “imperfections” that create the unique beauty of stones. They are unique, like fingerprints; no two stones or people can be exactly alike. A stone is a living being. In his life there is a birth, a period of growth and maturation, decay. And just like the human soul, there is no death, no disappearance – there is only a transition from one state to another. Each stone, like a person, has a different character and energy. The mineral has only one inherent biofield, which interacts with a person and helps him.


There are no bad stones. If you are friendly to natural stone, then the stone is friendly. Energy is always just energy. A person paints it. Our first unpleasant sensations from a stone may indicate that the stone is not bad, that we cannot channel its energy. The stone makes it possible to obtain those qualities that we lack. We need all the stones that we have in a certain period of time.


Indifference to the mineral may mean that you do not need the energy of this stone now. Rejection of natural stone indicates resistance to this energy. Usually, when a mineral doesn’t suit you (at that moment in your life), you won’t even be drawn to it. You may be closed to the energy of this stone or simply not ready to accept it. The stone is annoying you, so it’s time to clean it. Minerals are sensitive instruments and collect the energy and thoughts of people. There is nothing wrong with this, it’s just that natural stones need cleaning. Always clean stones and jewelry after purchase before use. Stones come to those who wait for them. Don’t think that any of the stones will never be with you. Everyone is different, and no matter what online sources recommend to you, you must consider your own feelings and intuition. For example, you want to attract love into your life, but you absolutely do not like the stone rose quartz. Try other options with similar properties and see how you feel about those minerals. Our energy is characterized by change. It is possible that your least favorite mineral will very soon become the best assistant in your collection. There are symptoms you should pay attention to! What constitutes a bad reaction to a mineral depends on each individual. There are many other reasons why you may experience the following symptoms: Feeling like you need to remove the jewelry from this stone or move the crystal away sudden headache Feeling bad for no reason Burning where the stone comes into contact with the skin If they persist for some time after the stone is removed, it is unlikely that it was the cause. Always listen to your body. We do not recommend that you expose yourself to stones if you feel unwell!


We all believe in the power of natural stones – and for good reason. Many of us have probably felt a certain vibration emanating from the mineral. Each mineral has its own energy; it is an individual assistant that can enhance a person’s energy. Stones exchange energy with us, showing and giving strength to us, while taking away and absorbing fatigue, indecision and negativity. Many people have a question. Is it worth taking other people’s stones? It’s a matter of personal energy. Natural stones, be it just a jackdaw or a bracelet, absorb the energy of their wearer. Energy is not only positive, but also negative. Especially if you inherited the stones. We recommend zeroing natural stones to avoid adverse consequences for yourself. It is better to store family jewelry in a box rather than carry it on yourself. It is important to understand that not only can you not wear found jewelry, but it is also undesirable to try on or borrow jewelry from your friends and relatives. Such objects, which carry power, after long contact, are charged with our energy. They can affect the well-being of their owner. The owner himself will not benefit from this, because this is his personal property. And if someone else decides to wear the item, the effect can be unpleasant. When you were given a gift, you found or decided to hold someone’s natural stone, it would be nice to clean it. And regardless of how he got to you. Thanks to this procedure, you can remove all its energy from a natural stone. An important point is that you can give your stones to someone, as well as take someone else’s, only after thorough cleaning. Develop your senses, collect your own unique collection. The same stones can evoke different feelings in different people and work differently. Choosing your stone is not so easy. Often many people do not know or have difficulty choosing “their stone”. Of course, stones can be chosen intuitively, or in other ways (for example, by zodiac, blood type, and so on). As strange as it may sound, the saying that “we do not choose the stone, but the stone itself chooses us” is very fair, because since ancient times it has been established that each stone has its own energy and carries its own information. There are cases when people bought beautiful products made of natural stone and did not wear them, due to the fact that they “didn’t feel like” wearing them. Sometimes, it happens that while wearing such products, a person begins to have headaches, problems with blood pressure arise, and a continuous black streak appears in life. An incorrectly selected stone can negatively affect a person’s life, thereby attracting troubles and illnesses. When choosing a stone, the most important thing is what emotions your chosen decoration evokes in you. After all, every selected product made from natural stone should be worn with pleasure, that is, which you like. How can you tell “your” stone from “not yours”? Place it between your palms and close your eyes; if you “start to feel sick”, this means that the stone is not suitable for you – beware of it, it will bring you nothing but troubles. He will attract troubles to you, drain energy from you, belittle your virtues, and aggravate the negative aspects of your character. Well, if holding such a product made from the stone of your choice in your hands, your heart beats smoothly, your palms remain dry and you feel good, then you have found your stone, and you can safely buy it. For those who have difficulty choosing their stone using intuition, there are other ways. Astrologers have made a classification of the choice of stone according to the zodiac sign. You may ask, how did they classify stones according to the zodiac circle? In this case, the energy of the planets for each zodiac sign was taken into account, and on this basis, stones and minerals were selected that corresponded to a given planet and energy. The very first astrological connection was established back in the Middle Ages. This table of stones has changed more than once. But in 1934 new tables were installed. Also, there is not one, not two, but a series of tables. Of these, there are: Hebrew, Oriental, Germanic, Slavic, American, Romanesque, etc. Finally, in the seventies, the International Association of Jewelers undertook a special initiative. searches, and later corrected and approved some information and tables. Now there is such a science as lithotherapy. She studies the effect of stones on the human body, as well as treatment with stones. This science (Lithotherapy) also contains other, more narrowly focused, methods of influencing minerals on the human body. This is a science such as crystal therapy, metal therapy, mineral therapy, stone therapy, gemmotherapy, the effect of stones on the chakras, clay treatment, astromineralogy, etc. They make up one general concept – LITHOTHERAPY. I also note that when choosing a stone, it is also advisable to take into account the character of the person. Stones of a certain energy determine which traits and character traits need to be strengthened or weakened in a person. For example, if a person is very unrestrained or irritable, then he needs a stone – a talisman that could extinguish these feelings, making him calmer, keeping the person from committing rash acts. And vice versa, for a quiet, timid, shy person, the chosen talisman stone should give confidence in their abilities and self-confidence. I would also like to emphasize that pomegranate is suitable for melancholic people and individuals prone to depression. And the most important thing is that you really like the decoration.

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